Life with a Side of AI

Dear Digital Diary,

Here’s something I’ve learned the sparkly, slightly messy way: Being a specific manifestor in Human Design means I need details.  Vibes are great. But for me, clarity is the magic.

Still, even with my Pinterest board of sunny kitchens, mid century bedrooms, and garden paths; I was stuck. I knew the dream home I wanted… but something felt like it was holding me back.

So I turned to a different kind of expander: ChatGPT.

Not to pick out the wallpaper or calculate mortgage rates (because 2025 rates are not helping me see to believe my self owning a home).

But to help me uncover the beliefs that might be blocking me from calling that home in.

💬 The Prompt That Changed Everything

Here’s what I typed in:

“Hi. I want to manifest my dream home. Can you help me figure out what might be blocking me from believing it’s possible? Please ask me one question at a time to help me explore what I really want and what limiting beliefs I might have.”

And just like that, I was in a co-creative conversation with an AI that doubled as a gentle coach and curious friend.

🪞 The Questions That Shifted Everything

The questions weren’t surface-level. They were intuitive, reflective, and… a little spooky in their accuracy.

Things like:

• “What does your dream home feel like when you walk in the door?”
• “Do you believe someone like you can have that?”
• “What were you taught about success, stability, or home ownership?”
• “What fears come up when you imagine having it?”

Whew.

Turns out, my biggest block wasn’t money or logistics.

It was this quiet, persistent belief: If I get the home I want, something will go wrong. It’ll be taken away.

Basically… I’m always worried the rug will be pulled out from under me.

Oof.

🔁 Rewriting the Story, One Line at a Time

I asked ChatGPT to help me reframe that belief.

Here’s what it offered:

“You are safe to receive stability. A home that feels good doesn’t mean something bad is coming—it means you’re aligned with what’s meant for you.”

I read that back… and felt my shoulders drop.

Suddenly, this wasn’t just about manifesting a house.

It was about making room to feel safe in the having.

📋 Prompts to Try This Yourself

Want to explore this for your own manifestation journey or even just to get some clarity…

Here are a few prompts to copy and paste into ChatGPT:

1. Clarify Your Desire

“Hi. I want to manifest [insert your desire]. Can you ask me one question at a time to help me get clear on what I really want and what beliefs might be blocking it?”

2. Identify the Limiting Beliefs

“What beliefs do you notice from what I’ve shared that could be holding me back? Can you help me name and reframe them?”

3. Write a Supportive Affirmation

“Can you help me write an affirmation that feels grounded and encouraging?”

Whether you’re into manifestation, self-reflection, or just curious this process can bring clarity, compassion, and maybe even a little cosmic push.

💫 The Takeaway

I used to think I just needed to name what I wanted clearly.

But it turns out… sometimes the magic comes from seeing what’s in the way.

Letting yourself imagine the life you want and then lovingly clearing the dust bunnies of doubt is a beautiful part of the process.

That said, I do want to be clear about something:

I’ve been through years of therapy. “The rug being pulled out from under me” was not necessarily a life changing revelation when it came up, I’ve noticed this theme before in other parts of my life. This type of inner work isn’t always light and dreamy, sometimes it brings up things you thought you let go of.

If something heavy comes up during this process please know there is never a reason to suffer alone. AI can be a helpful tool in the moment, but it’s not a replacement for a trained mental health professional. If you need support, please seek it. You are worthy of care.

Sometimes your expander is a person. Sometimes a story. But sometimes… it’s a chatbot.

With blueprints, belief, and just a hint of stardust,
Me (and my algorithmic alignment coach) 🧘‍♀️💻